From the moment a child takes their first breath, they begin to absorb the world – not through logic or judgment, but through pure presence.
For the first seven years, a child lives in a state of deep openness.
They are a sponge, soaking in everything: the tone of a voice, the tension in the room, the colours, emotions, beliefs, even unspoken energies.
There is no filter.
No shield.
No “this is good” or “this is bad.”
Only absorption.
During this time, the subconscious is wide open, recording every interaction and environment as if it were truth.
These early impressions – both energetic and experiential – become the child’s inner map of reality.
They form the blueprint of their self-worth, their worldview, their ability to trust, to express, to love.
The Child as a Receptive Field
Modern developmental psychology confirms that brainwave states in the first seven years resemble those of deep hypnosis – theta and alpha waves dominate, making children incredibly susceptible to programming. But where science speaks of “neural pathways” and “conditioning,” the ancient traditions knew something more:
The soul is remembering who it is. And the world either helps it… or causes it to forget.
The Soul’s Descent and the Veil of Shock
Many esoteric traditions speak of the soul’s descent from higher realms as a delicate, sacred process. The unborn spirit chooses (or is drawn toward) an incarnation, often with a mission, a lesson, or a karmic thread to fulfill. But when that soul enters a violent or chaotic environment, something happens:
It can recoil.
Like a flower closing under harsh winds, or a deer freezing in headlights, some souls experience a kind of existential shock.
They sense that the energies around them are not just foreign – but corruptive.
Not just challenging – but degrading.
And in some cases, the soul chooses not to fully anchor into the body.
Could this be one spiritual explanation for some forms of autism?
Some channelled material, like that from Dolores Cannon’s regressions or the Law of One, suggest that higher-density beings may partially withdraw their consciousness in early life to protect their original frequency. In a sense, they refuse to assimilate a distorted world – not as an act of defiance, but as an act of preservation.
Plato and the Battle for Purity
Plato described the soul’s journey as one of remembrance – that truth, beauty, and goodness live within us, but are forgotten through the distractions and degradations of the body.
He saw the body not as evil, but as a test – a veil that the soul must pass through to remain pure and directed toward the light.
But what if the test becomes too much, too soon?
If the child enters a home filled with rage, neglect, manipulation, or spiritual blindness, they may unconsciously say:
“No. I won’t let this enter me.”
And so, some choose silence.
Some shut down.
Some build invisible walls between their inner world and the outer noise.
Not All Shut-Down Is Wounding – Some Is Wisdom
What modern psychiatry often labels as “dysfunction” may, in some cases, be the wisdom of the soul.
A form of spiritual preservation.
A refusal to allow early experiences to corrupt the mission.
A resistance to absorbing karmic debris that was not theirs to carry.
But this too, comes with pain.
Because in protecting themselves, these children often remain unseen, misread, or misunderstood.
Their silence is treated as delay.
Their distance as disorder.
Their wisdom as malfunction.
When the Energy Stops, the Body Suffers
When a child shuts down emotionally and energetically, the body responds in kind. The flow of life force – what some traditions call chi, prana, or etheric energy – begins to constrict. Movement becomes limited. Curiosity fades. The muscles don’t grow with vitality. The nervous system, without a safe outlet for expression, enters a kind of freeze state. In this suspended mode, growth slows down – not just psychologically, but physiologically. Without emotion, there is no energy. Without energy, there is no motion. And without motion, development becomes delayed, distorted, or even reversed. The body, like the spirit, tries to protect itself by becoming small, quiet, invisible. But this protection comes at a cost: the child begins to lose the natural momentum of becoming.
What the Child Needs
The child’s greatest need is not stimulation. Not toys. Not even education.
The child needs a pure field.
A safe, attuned, energetically stable environment.
One that reflects truth, love, and grounded presence.
One that doesn’t force them to forget who they are, but gently helps them remember.

The Soul Remembers Eternity
In the first years of life, the child’s consciousness is still deeply connected to the Source – the higher self, the eternal field. Time, urgency, and identity haven’t yet taken root. There is no rush. No shame. No striving. The child comes from eternity, and it still remembers.
So, when a soul encounters frequencies, it knows will harm its purity, it sometimes chooses to shut down. Not as failure. But as a form of spiritual insulation. Because the soul knows: this life is not all there is.
From our adult perspective, it can feel like a tragic mistake. We may look back and wonder, why didn’t I grow strong and meet the challenge head-on? Why did I retreat, shrink, or suffer in silence?
But from the soul’s perspective, this incarnation is one class in a much larger school. And even the hardest lifetimes – those marked by pain, disconnection, or delay – are not wasted. They are part of the curriculum of evolution. Even suffering becomes sacred material when seen from above.
So yes, the child may have shut down.
Yes, the growth may have been delayed.
But the soul continues.
It learns.
It remembers.
And it always returns to finish what it started – stronger, wiser, and closer to the Light.
The Healing
Whether your early years were warm and safe or cold and confusing, you now hold the key to healing.
To return to that child with fresh eyes.
To become the guardian you never had.
To clear the energy around your soul and remind it:
“You were right to want purity. And now we can build it together.”
“Don’t grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.”
– Rumi
“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience.”
– Plato
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