The Conditioning: How Society Trains Us to Forget Ourselves

We are born free, yet from the first breath, the system begins to shape us. Rules, routines, and expectations wrap around us like invisible chains, so tight we no longer notice them. Most people don’t even question it – believing that the way they think, feel, and act is simply “who they are.” But what if it isn’t? What if much of what we call ourselves is actually conditioning – programs installed to keep us small, predictable, and useful? To see this clearly, let us start with a lesson from the desert.

When it comes to survival in the desert, the most important law is not food or water – but energy conservation. Every unnecessary step, every wasted movement, can tip the scales between life and death.

Our bodies carry a built-in law within them – is an autopilot switch – an energy-saving mode that activates when the soul grows heavy, or when the environment becomes too demanding. It’s a protective mechanism, but in today’s world, this same survival tool has been weaponized against us.


Conditioned from Birth

Think about swaddling. Specialists say wrapping infants tightly makes them feel safe, calm, and comfortable. But in truth, the “calm” is not comfort – it is conservation. The baby cannot freely move, cannot cry with full lungs, cannot express itself. Its energy is being rationed, forced into stillness. The body learns early that silence equals survival.

This pattern doesn’t stop in infancy. Much like elephants conditioned with chains as babies, who later never challenge the same restraint as adults, humans are programmed to accept invisible limits. We grow up never using the full capacity of body or mind, functioning at a fraction of our true potential.

The Pre Planned Path

Society is designed to keep our true energy suppressed. Schools overload young minds with information until there’s no space left for curiosity or self-discovery. Bodies are kept still for long hours, then released in short, frantic breaks that condition us to burn energy in bursts instead of letting it flow naturally. This same pattern follows us into adulthood: quiet submission during the day, followed by forced outlets – gyms, nightlife, entertainment – where energy is thrown out all at once. Cities add another layer, overwhelming the senses with constant noise and distraction, until inner silence feels unnatural. The result is a life lived between suppression and explosion, instead of balance and steady growth.


Ritalin: Drugging the Fire

Nowhere is this silent war more visible than in the mass prescription of Ritalin. Once reserved for extreme cases of attention deficit, it has become almost standard issue for active teenagers. What society calls “hyperactivity” is often just raw life force – untamed, creative energy trying to express itself. Instead of guiding that fire, the system medicates it.

Ritalin doesn’t solve the problem – it suppresses the signal. It takes the wildness. It keeps the child sitting still, conserving energy in the same way swaddling once did. The bright spark dims, not because it has burned out, but because it has been chemically constrained.


The Silent War on Vitality

From swaddling to schooling, from overstimulation to medication, the same pattern repeats: conserve, suppress, control. Energy that could fuel art, innovation, or inner awakening is redirected into conformity and consumption.

But here’s the truth: our energy is not the enemy – it is the doorway. The more we learn to channel it, and let it flow naturally, the more human we truly become. Yet from childhood, we are conditioned to suppress it. This cycle is manufactured; it keeps us from ever learning the ancient art of living with our energy in harmony. The silent war is not really on the body – it is on the soul’s capacity to inhabit the body and the energy fully.

To reclaim our true design, we must begin again – slowly, gently, consciously. The path starts with practices like meditation, breathwork, and connecting with the earth. It deepens through cleansing the body, releasing old blocks, and letting go of the false belief that our conditioned state is “just who we are.” Most people don’t realize it: what they think of as their character is often just the result of programming.

Step by step, we can return to our original blueprint. Movements like Tai Chi or Qi Gong teach us to feel the subtle currents within. As awareness grows, we begin to sense energy moving through the chakras. We learn to breathe into parts of the body that hold tension, to hum or sound where energy is stuck, to stretch and move in ways that were once natural to us.

This is the great reset – not of machines, but of ourselves. Just as a frozen computer needs to be unplugged, cleared, and restarted, so too must we disconnect from the system that shaped us. We must wipe away the old programs of control and reload our inner operating system with practices that awaken vitality, awareness, and presence. In doing so, we discover that what we called “personality” was only conditioning. Beneath it lies our true nature – not noise, not suppression, but the higher self-alive in the body.

And the victory begins with remembering: your vitality is sacred. Guard it. Grow it. Let it move.


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My artistic vision is to inspire and evoke emotions through my digital art. Each creation is a window into my soul, reflecting my passion for art and storytelling. I strive to connect with viewers on a profound level, sparking conversations and igniting imaginations.

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